October is all about providing UNH students sexual well-being learning opportunities so that they can make informed choices regarding their sexual well-being and health care.
All programs provided during Sextober use a well-being framework and comprehensive sex education approach that is:
- Medically accurate
- Developmentally appropriate for young adults (aged 18-25)
- Inclusive and culturally responsive
- Shame-free
- Trauma-informed
We work in accordance with guidelines from the American College Health Association (ACHA), Centers for Disease Control (CDC), and the World Health Organization (WHO) who collectively advocate for sex education that utilizes a public health and comprehensive sex education approach.
Sextober’s learning opportunities are designed for UNH students who are:
- Practicing abstinence
- Thinking about having sex
- Currently having sex
We collaborate with various UNH departments and programs to bring Sextober to UNH that are:
- Free
- Open to the UNH community (students and employees)
- Open to all identities
If you have any questions about Sextober programming, please email Dawn Zitney, Well-Being Educator/Counselor at dawn.zitney@unh.edu.
All Month
Pleasure Pop-Ups: Be on the lookout for our sex education pop-ups around campus at various times and locations. Brought to you by the Sexual Well-Being Interns.
Sextober Extras
- Request a sex education program for your UNH community.
- Free safer sex supplies available at Health & Wellness, no questions asked.
- 'Free Pleasure Kits that include education on safer sex and a variety of barrier methods and lubrication will be given out at all Health & Wellness Sextober events.
Week of October 1
SEXTOBER Hook up culture DISPLAY |
OCT 1-15 |
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unh Library |
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Visit our display in the UNH Library to learn about hook up culture and the sexual well-being resources available at Health & Wellness. While you are there, visit the Library's display on Banned Books, many of which are challenged because of themes related to sexual orientation, gender identity, and sexual behaviors. Brought to you by Health & Wellness
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PRE-TBTN CRAFT NIGHT- SHARPP @THE E-CENTER |
Monday, Oct 2 |
6:30-8:30 PM |
e-CENTER |
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Join SHARPP @ the E Center for a pre-Take Back The Night craft night open to all UNH community members. Crafts made at this event can either be taken home or left with SHARPP to be incorporated into a powerful visual display at our annual Take Back The Night event. This is a drop-in style craft night, where you can stop by for as much (or as little) time as you're able to. Dinner & refreshments will be provided. Grab a group of friends and come on by! The E-Center is located at 21 Madbury Rd. #101 (across from Hop & Grind). |
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STI/HIV WALK-IN CLINIC |
TUESDAY, OCT 3 |
8:00 AM - 4:00 PM |
HEALTH & WELLNESS |
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Sexually active? Get yourself tested! Out-of-pocket cost (if you don’t bill to your health insurance) of common tests:
Free safer sex supplies always available at Health & Wellness. No questions asked. Brought to you by Health & Wellness |
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SHARPP @ The Freedom Cafe's Open Mic Night |
WEDNESDAY, OCT 4 |
6:30 PM |
FREEDOM CAFE |
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Stop by the Freedom Cafe's open mic night to listen, perform, learn, and connect with others. The event runs from 7-10 pm and sign-ups begin at 6:30 pm. The Freedom Café is a non-profit specialty café dedicated to ending human trafficking and the commercial exploitation of all people. |
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WELLNESS FEST – SEXUAL PLEASURE TABLE |
THURSDAY, OCT 5 |
11:00 AM -2:00 PM |
HRC, 1ST FLOOR COURTS |
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Visit the Health & Wellness Sextober table to learn how sexual/intimate pleasure can enhance mental health. Brought to you by Sexual Well-Being Interns, Health & Wellness |
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YOGA FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE |
FRIDAY, OCT 6 |
1:00 - 2:00 PM |
STUDIO 1, HRC |
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Yoga is a practice of liberation. Join this yoga class to learn how you can start to liberate your body and mind to experience pleasure in your body. No yoga experience required. Yoga mats provided. Taught by Dawn Zitney, Well-Being Educator/Counselor, Health & Wellness and registered yoga teacher. Brought to you by Health & Wellness |
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TAKE A HIKE WITH SHARPP! |
FRIDAY, OCT 6 |
LEAVE CAMPUS 7:00 AM |
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Interested in joining SHARPP & Outdoor Adventures for this hike in the White Mountains? Trip details are listed below. Advance registration is mandatory to ensure a spot is saved for you! Transportation will be provided. This is a collaborative event hosted by SHARPP & OA as part of our Relationship Abuse Awareness Month programming. This hike will not serve as a formal processing space; attending does not mean you will be expected to share your story or survivor identity. Rather, the goal is to be in community with one another and to find safety, joy, and healing in nature. Date: Friday, October 6, 2023 | Time: We will leave campus at 7am for this hike and plan to eat lunch on the summit Mountain: Hedgehog Mountain, 5miles total, 1,397ft elevation gain, loop trail, skill level: moderate | Cost: FREE! Registration Deadline: October 3rd by 3pm: https://unh.az1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_38kGRnHIsKUh9Nc |
Week of October 8
SEXTOBER Hook up culture DISPLAY |
oCT 1-15 |
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UNH Library |
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Visit our display in the UNH Library to learn about hook up culture and the sexual well-being resources available at Health & Wellness. While you are there, visit the Library's display on Banned Books, many of which are challenged because of themes related to sexual orientation, gender identity, and sexual behaviors. Brought to you by Health & Wellness |
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national Coming out week |
MONDAY, OCT 9 - FRIDAY, OCT 13 |
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university-wide |
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Coming out is a process that is unique to each individual. Join the UNH community as we honor National Coming Out Week. Support for students coming out can be found at The Beauregard Center, and the Diversity Support Coalition and associated student organizations, Psychological & Counseling Services (PACS), and Health & Wellness.
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TAKE BACK THE NIGHT |
THURsday, OCt 12 |
8:00 PM |
T-HALL LAWN |
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This is an annual student-led event aimed at raising awareness and inspiring community action related to ending interpersonal violence and supporting survivors here at UNH. Attendees arrive on T-Hall Lawn to show their support of those impacted by violence by making signs, wearing purple/teal, and joining in on a march around campus. This event includes informational tabling, a candlelight vigil, and an open mic for those impacted by violence. TBTN operates as a safe haven space free from mandatory reporting for those impacted by violence to be given the space to share their stories, calls to action, and to be in solidarity with community. This event is open to UNH community members. This event is open to UNH community members. Rain Date: October 19th. |
Week of October 15
Relationship Abuse Awareness Month Book Display AND CLOTHESLINE PROJECT |
Oct 17 - Oct 31 |
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Stop by the Dimond Library to view our clothesline project display & recommended books + podcasts resource table. SHARPP's clothesline project display dates back to the late '90s/early 2000s, with a large collection of shirts made by and for survivors. Today, the project serves as a way for survivors and their loved ones to share their stories, express their feelings, and raise awareness around interpersonal violence (IPV). |
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Safe Zones Training: LGBTQIA+ Panel of Student Experiences |
THURSDAY, OCT 19 |
3:40- 5:00 PM |
MUB 330/332 OR Zoom |
Join us for a brief presentation on LGBTQA+ identities followed by a panel discussion which will feature students and staff. They will share how they identify within the LGBTQIA+ and Ally spectrum, personal experiences with coming out and reactions from friends and family, being LGBTQIA+ at UNH, personal impact of homophobic and transphobic bias incidents, tips for allies, and beyond. This is an informal opportunity for the anyone in the UNH Community to learn from those with lived experiences at UNH. Sponsored by the Department of Sociology, Office of Community, Equity and Diversity, and Health & Wellness |
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WRITER’S SERIES: DIANNELY ANTIGUA |
THURSDAY, OCT 19 |
5:00 PM |
210 Hamilton Smith |
Diannely Antigua is a Dominican American poet and educator, born and raised in Massachusetts. Her debut collection Ugly Music (YesYes Books, 2019) was the winner of the Pamet River Prize and a 2020 Whiting Award. Her second poetry collection Good Monster is forthcoming with Copper Canyon Press in 2024. She received her B.A. in English from the University of Massachusetts Lowell where she won the Jack Kerouac Creative Writing Scholarship; and received her MFA at NYU where she was awarded a Global Research Initiative Fellowship to Florence, Italy. She is the recipient of additional fellowships from CantoMundo, Community of Writers, Fine Arts Work Center Summer Program, and was a finalist for the 2021 Ruth Lilly and Dorothy Sargent Rosenberg Poetry Fellowship. Her work has been nominated for the Pushcart Prize and chosen for the Best of the Net Anthology. Her poems can be found in Poem-a-Day, Poetry Magazine, The American Poetry Review, Washington Square Review, The Adroit Journal, and elsewhere. She hosts the podcast Bread & Poetry and is currently the Poet Laureate of Portsmouth, NH, the youngest and first person of color to receive that title. For more information visit diannelyantigua.com |
Week of October 22
RELATIONSHIP ABUSE AWARENESS MONTH BOOK DISPLAY AND CLOTHESLINE PROJECT |
oct 17-31 |
UNH LIBRARY |
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Stop by the Dimond Library to view our clothesline project display & recommended books + podcasts resource table. SHARPP's clothesline project display dates back to the late '90s/early 2000s, with a large collection of shirts made by and for survivors. Today, the project serves as a way for survivors and their loved ones to share their stories, express their feelings, and raise awareness around interpersonal violence (IPV). |
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SIGNATURE EVENT: SEXPO! |
THURSDAY, OCT 26 |
11:00 am - 2:00 pm |
HRC, 1ST FLOOR COURTS |
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Sextober’s ends with a climax of our signature event – The Sexpo! Bring your friends and lovers to learn about sexual well-being and the services available at UNH and the local community. Open to all identities. You don't need to be sexually active to attend. Free safer sex supplies, food, and giveaways. Brought to you by Health & Wellness |